Day 1: “Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” –Nido Qubein
When people look at widows and widowers, they see how hard it is to lose a spouse. What they do not understand, what they could never imagine, is how hard it is to rebuild your life. Learning to live again, does not mean losing the memory of your loved one. It means healing. Healing is what will allow you to live again.
There is no magic way to do this. There is no automatic fix. It is a journey. Like all journeys, it has a beginning. Today is where you start.